The results suggest large gender differences in how men and women experience opposite-sex friendships. If so, do you intend to tell them? Are they okay with it or do they get jealous? How are friendships between men different from friendships between women? How would you react if they told you? Do you have problems understanding how the opposite sex thinks? Men were much more attracted to their female friends than vice versa.
Do they have reason to be jealous? Do you interact differently with your male and female friends? Few other questions have provoked debates as intense, family dinners as awkward, literature as lurid, or movies as memorable. Can a man and woman be really close and never feel any sexual attraction at all to one another? The results suggest large gender differences in how men and women experience opposite-sex friendships. Privacy was paramount—for example, imagine the fallout if two friends learned that one—and only one—had unspoken romantic feelings for the other throughout their relationship. Would it ruin your friendship? These friendship pairs were then separated, and each member of each pair was asked a series of questions related to his or her romantic feelings or lack thereof toward the friend with whom they were taking the study. Are they okay with it or do they get jealous? However, men and women differed in the extent to which they saw attached friends as potential romantic partners. Do you think that any of your friends might secretly want to be more than just friends with you? In order to investigate the viability of truly platonic opposite-sex friendships—a topic that has been explored more on the silver screen than in the science lab—researchers brought 88 pairs of undergraduate opposite-sex friends into…a science lab. Still, the question remains unanswered. How easy or difficult is it for men and women to understand one another? How would you react if they told you? Women, too, were blind to the mindset of their opposite-sex friends; because females generally were not attracted to their male friends, they assumed that this lack of attraction was mutual. How are your male friends different from your female friends? If so, do you intend to tell them? Have you experienced a situation like this before? Do you secretly harbour romantic feelings for any of your friends? Men were also more likely than women to think that their opposite-sex friends were attracted to them—a clearly misguided belief. Do you have many friends of the opposite sex? How are friendships between men different from friendships between women? Daily experience suggests that non-romantic friendships between males and females are not only possible, but common—men and women live, work, and play side-by-side, and generally seem to be able to avoid spontaneously sleeping together. Men were much more attracted to their female friends than vice versa. In order to ensure honest responses, the researchers not only followed standard protocols regarding anonymity and confidentiality, but also required both friends to agree—verbally, and in front of each other—to refrain from discussing the study, even after they had left the testing facility. Do you have problems understanding how the opposite sex thinks?
Video about marriage and opposite sex friends:
Can Married People Have Friends of the Opposite Sex?
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